It was a cold November morning and I was wishing the summer weather didn’t have to end so abruptly or ever for that matter. My thoughts drifted to warm days when I could go swimming or enjoy an evening outdoors without thinking about the need of a sweater. Then, reality hit me. I saw the advertisements filled with Thanksgiving, Black Friday, and Christmas sales. Winter was here and the majority of people couldn’t wait for Thanksgiving. As a child, I always viewed Thanksgiving as an excuse to feast.

What is the meaning of Thanksgiving? The first Thanksgiving dates back to November 1621, when colonist in Plymouth shared a feast with Wampanoag Native Americans to celebrate their first autumn harvest. It was viewed as a time of thankfulness, acceptance, and sharing. But, today’s society paints the holiday in a different light. Perhaps, you have received some of these subliminal messages? You need to buy the most and the best quality food. It’s not Thanksgiving, without this or that— but, what if you are lacking? What if you don’t have the best dinner with all of Thanksgiving trimmings? What if you aren’t the best cook? What if your house doesn’t have the best decorations or look the best? What if you don’t have everything that you wanted and aren’t the best at what you do? What if you feel frustrated, stressed out, and burned out? What if you aren’t very excited for the holidays? What if all just seems lackluster?

Then, perhaps we’ve lost sight of the meaning of Thanksgiving? Maybe Thanksgiving should be about more than just eating a feast.

“Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name.”  

– Psalm 100:4 NIV

As Christians, we always have something to be thankful for; God’s never-ending love for us and our Salvation in Christ Jesus (read John 3:16). “Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever.” – Psalm 107:1 NIV

Thanksgiving season is a time to thank God for everything. 1 Thessalonians 5:18 NIV
says, “give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” 1 Thessalonians 5:18 “[A]ll circumstances”?! Yes, we need to be thankful even if we don’t have what we wanted and things aren’t going the way we planned. If we focus too long on what we don’t have, we fail to see what we do have.

This reminds me of the lyrics to a song called “Thank God for Something” by Hawk Nelson.

“… If you’ve got a lot
Or a lot of nothing
Go ahead and thank God for something
You’re gonna see the good
If you’re good at looking
So go ahead and thank God for something

We have a lot or have a little
It’s really nothing new
Happiness should never be a slave to revenue…

In the wonder In the heartache
In the good times And the mistakes
No matter what I am going through
I can always say Thank you
When the blessings are in disguise
Let gratitude open my eyes
Cause I’ve just been given too much
To do anything but

1, 2, 3, 4
Count my blessings
1, 2, 3, 4
Count my blessings…”

But, do we really need to “give thanks in all circumstances”?! Yes, we need to be thankful whether things are going well for us or they are not going well for us. Romans 8:28 says, “… all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” Even when things don’t seem to be going well, God is at work. We need to be thankful for not only the doors that He opens for us but also the doors that He closes. We need to thank God for what He has done, for what He is doing, and what He will do. We need to not confine thanksgiving to this season, but make it a part of our daily life.

“We ought to give thanks for all fortune: if it is good, because it is good, if bad, because it works in us patience, humility and the contempt of this world and the hope of our eternal country.” –C.S. Lewis

And, in turn thanksgiving will bring the fruits of a joy in the Lord, a stronger trust in God, a deeper relationship with Christ, a greater acceptance of others (even if they are different from us), and a desire to share with others (even if it means not having the best for ourselves).

Dear Lord Jesus, Thank You for loving us so much that You were willing to pay the ultimate price of Your life on the cross for our Salvation. Thank You for giving us life and everything else You bless us with. Please help us not to get distracted by what we don’t have, but to instead be thankful every day for what You have given us. Amen.