Who is wise and understanding among you? Let them show it by their good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. -James 3:13

What does it mean to be understanding? It can feel pretty difficult to put yourself in the shoes of all those around you. You have to feel their pain and hurt. It could be painful. But God wants us to be able to:
- Feel how they feel
- Think about how they feel
- And, react to their (perhaps irrational) reactions in the same way that He would (with love).
I think another key word here is humility.
“not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.
In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:
Who, being in very nature[a] God,
did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
rather, he made himself nothing
by taking the very nature[b] of a servant,
being made in human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a man,
he humbled himself
by becoming obedient to death—
even death on a cross!”
-Philippians 2:4-8
In this verse, Christ sets the ultimate example of humility.
But, what is humility? I remember reading article about the word humble. It turns out it is trending for people to misuse the word “humble.” They #humble and say that was a humbling experience, but really they are boasting. When you really think about it: is it humble to say, “I am humble”? Isn’t that giving yourself credit and talking good (boasting) about yourself?
So, James 3:13 says, “by deeds done in humility.” How do we act in humility? The same way Jesus did. “He made himself nothing.” He knows how we feel. But, He also knows our words and actions (the ugly ones). He chose to react with love, even if it meant “taking the very form of a servant” and ultimately giving His life for us. May our Lord Jesus Christ show us how to live in humility with understanding hearts. Amen.

